4 Reasons people end in Divorce.
"And they lived a long and happy marriage". Most of the stories are ended like this. But it just exists in a fairy tale and the reality is different. According to the National statistical office, 24% of couples end in divorce unfortunately. Then why many people experience this failure. I think there are 4 main reasons; wrong fantasy, familarity, perception of reality and difference in personality.
First, many people have their own marriage fantasy. Most of people overheard about marriage through drama or movie. But usually these are too unrealistic to be realized. These kinds of media just describe the most ideal husband, wife and family. So many couple came to feel that their marriage is far from what they expected, get into the deep depression, and finally make a decision to end the marriage.
Next, people became too accustomed to their relationship so they could be exhausted on their everyday. Before marriage, couples usually met just once in a day, and they had more things to do than they used to do. But after marriage, many exciting activities might be all achieved so they could feel that their daily life is boring. Also many used to care their appearance, because they needed to attract partner. But after marriage, they could see every aspects of their parter so finally they may not regard their partner as a lover.
Third, some couples tend to realize the reality they will encounter. These days, it is really hard to buy their own house and car. But these are usually needed to live together and to keep their marriage. Also it costs a lot to buy food ingredients. Although they tried hard, they could realize that living together makes both of them unhappy. So they could decided to divorce for each other.
Finally, the most common reason people explain their failure is difference in personality. Two different people who have another lifestyle and experience came to live together, and that is a marriage. Actually, there are lots of fights and arguments between family who lived more than 20 years together. So it is unavoidable and natural to have a fight because of the different personality. And at the first, they could understand most of the differences with the power of love, but when same things happened again and again, they could not stand marriage anymore.
Two people meet and fall in love. Marriage is the most wonderful events in their whole life. Sometimes divorce could be the best answer if they experienced all these 4 situations, wrong fantasy, familarity, perception of reality and difference in personality. But there is a saying "Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love." So would it be better to believe and respect each other one more time rather than cutting the most precious relationship?
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