Why Friendship Break Apart
There are many important relationship in our life, however friendship may be the one of the most valuable. To live without having friendship, is tragic in human's life. No one can live alone in their whole life. Interaction between people is necessary thing to live on, but friendship could make our life more prosperous. The famous American animator Trey Parker talked about a friendship and said, "I've learned that all a person has in life is family and friends. If you lose those, you have nothing, so friends are to be treasured more than anything else in the world." This line shows that friendship is important part of human's life and needs effort to maintain the relationship. Of course, there are many lines which show friendships are important in human's life. We could not define friendship in one meaning. However, we know not all friendships last forever, and breaking up can be incredibly awkward and uncomfortable no matter how old we are. Then why friendship break apart?
First of all, series of small misunderstanding affect friendship to break apart. Big problems can sometimes be solved by talking it out, but small problems between friendship usually not taken care or unnoticed. For example, being late for appointment for a few minutes in friendship, trivial pranks which might felt offended to opponents and not pay the money back to friends etc. Those trivial misunderstanding at some point, makes a people to get completely out of control and come out with an outburst which was in their mind. This outburst in friendship will probably ended with breaking off badly.
Instead of trivial misunderstanding, a big fight between two friends may cause to ending a relationship. A big fight is the cause of deep rifts between people who thought they were a good friend. However, this bad occasion won't ever make friendship go back to when it was a close relationship. For instance, famous ex-couple Chris Brown and Rihanna ended the relationship badly. They were good friend to each other but after a big fight which assaulted Rihanna with a deadly weapon and committed a violence. This big fight between two famous singers ended with a feud. Return to the subject, they cannot reunite even if they had reconciliation to each other. Because they already hurt their feeling and disappointed at what they did it to each other. A big fight with best friend is the worst reason to break up a relationship.
There are many reasons why friendship ends in breaking up. It could be the outcome of complicated relationship in nowadays. A meaning of friendship is changing to more trivial relationship instead of deep relationship which was usually understood in the past. This is mainly why many friendship break apart. We should think carefully about breaking a relationship whatever the reason was.
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